Cheap Self Promotion

So yeah... Usually I'm not one for shameless plugging (ok, my ego thinks I have no need to! ;)  BUT....

The Queen of Spades Blog is running there voting for QoS of the year and I think a little more wickedness would do it some good.  So if you enjoy my stories and writings, take a moment and go vote

http://queenofspadesdiaries.blogspot.com/?zx=56a3423025132a85

Kinky Christmas on Speed!

LOL  Yes, yes... I fell off the planet and right in the middle of my kinky Christmas rhyme.  At first, I was just too busy having fun to get it written down and then caught a nasty bug that had me laid up for almost a week.  Now that I'm feeling better and caught up at work... here's the kinky Christmas wrap up with some more details to follow as the words choose to flow

On the 5th day - work was a little hairy and our initial plans had to be canceled, so I settled for a nice little pegging of my boy.  A bit softer and sweeter then normal as the poor boy was feeling like a delicate flower that day... but still very satisfying.

On the 6th day - We met another new bull.  A nice gentleman who we had been chatting with for awhile.  While we had a good time with him, there was a definite difference in styles that made for a bit of a bumpy start... but we managed to come to a better understanding and enjoyed our time with him.

On the 7th day - I flogged and beat and pegged my boy till he passed out from exhaustion.  Sweet bliss!

On the 8th day - Mr. L. came for a visit!  YAY!!!  LOL  Let's just say it was even better then the first visit.  Of course, he'll be a little disappointed if this is all I write about his visit... so a little note for more to come.

On the 9th day - We took another break.  With big plans for New Year's Eve, I decided it would be prudent to get the house all in order.  So while my cuck caught up on laundry, dishes and the general house up keep... I worked on primping and prepping for a big New Year's eve night!

And Finally

New Year's Eve!  That, my friends, will just have to wait until I can write the stories to do the night justice... But yes, it was a HOT, SEXY, AMAZING time!

On the Forth Day of Kinky Christmas

Santa decided to remind me I’m not a spring chicken anymore! LOL

Things have been rather sexually charged around here.  My boy’s cage is proving extremely useful in actually ramping up his libido, even while knowing he can’t do much about it.  So when N turn into such a fun night... we stayed up way too late and played just a little too hard.

The next day, my body didn’t want to wake up.   As I struggled to get through the work day, I realized I was going to be worthless for any fun for the evening.  So I had my boy do a little rearranging of our plans in favor of a quiet night at home.  Oh sure... there was teasing, taunting and lots of giggling, but I’m pretty sure we were both passed out by 8PM.

Turned out to be a good thing, as the next two days we played even longer and harder.

On a side note, after the publishing of the QoS interview loaded with pictures, I figured the pictures are out there now... might as well add them to the blog.  So as a belated Xmas present to all my readers, enjoy the pictures.
 

On the Third Day of Kinky Christmas

Santa brought to me, a well hung pup who liked to fuck.

No, this isn’t a cutesy Christmas song.  I mean, have you read this blog?  But yes, Santa brought me a sexy, extra young stud full of vigor and a whole lot of fun.   

Usually, the men I play with tend to be more late 20s to mid 30s with the occasional outliers.  It’s not an age requirement or anything… just seems that’s the age where the stamina of the young finds a nice balance with the experience of the old and wraps it up in a sexy package of strength, scars, and all the other signs of a fun-filled life.  Granted, our on-line profile we cut the age off at 50 on the high end, 21 one the low end.  While I made an except on the high end to play with a Dominant Male top that my cuck knew and respected, the youngest I’ve ever played with to date has been 23.  Too be honest, it really did feel a little bit like robbing the cradle.

But N came across much older and I don’t think I even paid attention to his age.  I wasn’t until we met face to face that it came out that he was only 20.  Both my cuck and I were actually a bit surprised.  He came across as extremely relaxed and confident in what he wanted.  Not something we notice with the younger men I’ve played with.  When you throw in the curve that we were only the second couple he’d ever played with, and with the other couple was more like swinging then cuckolding.   But the man had made it this far without setting off any flags in my head, so I wasn’t going to let a little number get in the way.

So I had a little fun, giving him a quick tutorial on all the uses of my cuck when he asked.  Fetching drinks, taking care of clothes and a little just for fun humiliation… N seemed to lap it all up.  It didn’t take him long to jump right in and get the fun really going.  

Let’s just say, he was a bit like a Mr L in the making.  

On the Second Day of Kinky Christmas

Dear Santa brought to me, my cuck’s brand new chastity cage.  A nice shiny black Birdlocked Classic. 

 Oh and pretty red Christmas shoes!

Early in our relationship, I took a stab at playing with a chastity cage.  Initially, we tried a CB-2000.   My boy had some success with in the past and we were hopeful it would work almost right out of the gate.  Unfortunately, while it worked well for short term lock up, we found it didn’t work in his current career and had to get in the habit of taking it on and off a lot.  I started getting a bit irritated at the constant work.  Then, over time, it started to pinch too much and eventually wound up in the bottom of the toy box.

I always loved what the cage did for his headspace.  While he was always obedient on the orgasm control front, even without the cage… there’s something about that lock around his balls that just does something to him.  But the cost of trying out cage after cage until we found the right one was enough of a detractor to put the idea of getting a new one on the back burner.

As we’ve discussed taking our relationship into a deeper, more controlled dynamic, the topic of a new chastity cage came up.  Knowing how easily it makes him slip into the headspace I want to start keeping him in, it was an easy decision to start looking at the options again.  Sending my boy on the mission to research them all thoroughly and pick his own bondage carefully… he chose the birdlocked classic.  The hope is that the soft material will be able to hold up under his work conditions.

I do know that the first night spent locked up again nearly drove him mad.  Poor boy, always wanting what he can’t have, he wiggled and moan and whimper for nearly 20 mins.  I’m sure I didn’t help his situation with my verbal taunts and wandering hand.  e him mad.  rou.  e to hold up  to

On The First Day of Christmas

 Usually, this time of year is full of kids, family, parties and travel for us.  Kink tends to take a back seat till closer to New Year's when things start to calm down again.  This year, as plans started to fall into place, I realized it would make everyone's life easier if we got our half of the celebrations out of the way early. In doing so, I've inadvertently strung 10 kid free, little to no work, and no where I have to be days together.   My boy and I have been stirring the hornets nest to see what trouble we can stir up... and it looks like it may turn out to be a fun filled week.  So in classical holiday tradition (I'm such a sucker for the holidays), I bring you the "The 10 days of Kinky Christmas".

On the first day of kinky christmas, I bring you a delightful interview I did with the Queen of Spades Diary.  A fun snapshot of how I got to where I am (including some lovely pictures).  In addition, there's a follow up with an illustrated version of a short writing piece I wrote early in my cuckold adventures.
 

Holding Back

The past couple of weeks has been a little slow in the kink department.  After our wonderful night with Mr L., we had one last guest for the weekend.  AJ is a younger fellow we meet a few months ago.  To be honest, our first encounter was a little meh on the sexual side of the house… but he had a bit of a dominant streak and I loved watching him fuck my cuck.  After he had left, my cuck and I went through our usually rehashing of events and comparing notes.  Kind of a kinky after action review, with a dash of teasing and torment.  My boy was a little surprised when I said the sex was just good.  Admittedly, AJ had me squirting often through the whole encounter… so it was tough to explain what was off at first.  Best I could say was it felt like he was trying too hard.  

It’s an interesting phenomenon to watch manifest itself as I’ve wondered down my sexual path.  Being one who firmly believes in going after what you want, I’ve found getting what I want sexually is about being up-front about what you like and don’t like.  So when I chat with men, I’m pretty much up-front about what I like in the bedroom.  These days, it’s a tall order.  I’ve noticed the more I’ve been able to articulate what I like, the more I’ve come across men who will try to be this thing I want, but it’s not a natural thing for them.  They will literally try and role play the part I’ve spelled out for them.  Problem is, it just doesn’t work for me.  If it feels forced, it’s hard for me to relax, because I start to worrying if the other one is having a good time.  Now, don’t get me wrong, I would never speak ill of any of these men.  For many, it was their first time with a cuck couple.  For others, I think it was something that sounded hot in talk, but in reality, it just wasn’t something that came naturally for them.  With AJ, it turns out, it was all just the jitters. LOL.

Even though my sex-snobby self usually doesn’t want to bother again when the sex is just meh..finding bi-sexual tops isn’t an easy thing.  There aren’t too many out there to begin with, but when you tack on the black, 8”+, and crazy stamina that I require of any of my lovers… it gets a bit tougher.  AJ is one of the very few we’ve met that actually likes to fuck my cuck.  We did have a really good time with him.  He enjoyed being rough, has a wonderful cock, really enjoyed watching me humiliate my cuck, and even chimed in a time or two himself. It was easy to see that with someone like AJ, I could explore some avenues I just hadn’t had a chance to yet.  So I decided I wanted to see him again anyway.  When the second date came round…

OMG

It was almost night and day from his first visit.  I jokingly told my cuck that I thought the stiffness the first night was because he was trying to hold back.  Why?  I’m not sure.  But needless to say.. we’ve had several more visits from AJ since.